i guess if you fangirl over someone irl (someone you know and spend time with?) then you should just tone it down around that person (and with others). like its flattering to hear that someone admires you (how you handle things in general or maybe like a specific talent) but it crosses a line when you go overboard. its like hearing someone has a crush on you. its neat but if you dont have interest and theyre like “have my babies!” its like wtf. thats hypothetical but u know
yeah i def. see what ur saying!